Planting Seeds

Ben & NickBy Andrew Hunter

Seeds need to be planted in fertile ground, then loved, nurtured and fed until they grow into hearty plants that bear fruit of their own. In this way, seeds and children are the same. On April 22nd, Earth Day, we celebrated the 10th anniversary of Jackson’s death in the best way we knew how; we went to a co-op farm in Malibu with dear friends to plant seeds in fertile ground.

I know celebration seems like an odd word for a father to use when commemorating the death of his first child. Vivid memories make Jackson’s death seem like yesterday, but ten years’ time dulls the painful edges of grief. So this celebration wasn’t somber but a bittersweet tribute to life and love, family, friends, grief and perseverance, and above all the memory of sweet Jackson. We used to say Jackson sang with perfect pitch because he sang with pure joy, especially when there was a little red box of raisins clenched in his hand.

So it is with joy that we remember Jackson this year…planting seeds, making his favorite fruit salad, and by celebrating a life lost too soon. We love you “Little Man!”

Jackson’s Fruit Salad

The ideal combination of fruit for a salad is dictated by the season. Select the freshest fruit available in a variety of colors, shapes, sizes, and textures for an interesting mix. Bananas are a great addition – slice them just before serving so they hold their color and texture. The fruit suggested in this recipe can be cut with a small knife if young people are helping.

1/2 pound strawberries
1 bunch red seedless grapes, cut in half
1 handful of raisins
1 tablespoon brown sugar
1 banana

Wash the strawberries and trim off the green hull. Depending on their size, slice the berries in halves or Jacksonquarters and place the pieces in a bowl. Wash and dry the grapes and add to the strawberries.

Sprinkle the raisins and brown sugar over the fruit to add extra sweetness and flavor. Peel, slice, and add the banana to the salad, mix well, and serve right away.

Makes 4 or more servings

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